Death is one of the harsh truths of our existence that we are least prepared for. Paying respects to the dead is a centuries old practice that has gradually changed to suit the times. A traditional funeral service was conducted in church, with some hymns, recitals and a eulogy for the departed. However, as more people people are looking forward to personalized services, the practice has undergone change over the last few decades.
Planning a funeral service, immediately after the death of a near and dear one can be quite a traumatic and painful experience. One of the misconceptions about service is that it is compulsory under law for the family of the departed to organize a service, but this is incorrect.
Secondly, most people think that it has to be conducted in a church, which again is not the case. Traditionally these services might have been organized in churches but with the trends changing and a drive to make these affairs more personal, a lot of funeral services are being held within the home of the deceased these days.
Thirdly, such services do not need the presence of either the clergy or the casket and can be conveniently held without either.
However, for any such personal funeral service, you need to keep the deceased person in mind while making the arrangements. The music to be played at the service should be soft as well as from the favourites of the departed. You could choose from a live performance or playing pre recorded music.
Personal things can be displayed in the form of a collage, thereby bringing to the notice of everyone the real nature of the departed. Another important aspect in any funeral service is an address, whether as a poem, a song or even a speech talking about the deceased.
Finally, it is recommended to present the people gathered for the service with some souvenirs that help them keep the memories of the deceased alive for a long time.
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